Love Your Life 30 Day Project (Day 4)

My list of ways to showcase my inspiration includes writing diaries, forming a “goal collage,” listening to and singing beautiful songs, watching cute videos and so on. The one I just did was forming the goal collage.

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The photo above is the collage that I just formed. Here are the significance of each photo, starting from the top left.

  1. Loving and being loved by Tyler.
  2. Loving and being loved by my grandpa.
  3. Loving and being loved by my dad.
  4. AHHHHH Loving and being loved by my #1 sister wife. From 2003 – 2017, we are going strong !!!!!!!!!!
  5. Loving and being loved by HKX. Again, it’s an honor to know you and your mother at the Shanghai Book Fair 2 years ago. I’m so glad that I’m still in deep connections with you !!!
  6. Caring for my neighbor, who is basically my son. I’ve known him since 2004.
  7. Loving and being loved by Shanghai.
  8. Loving and being loved by my cat.
  9. Loving and being loved by my God !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A Huge-ass Thank You Note

好啦,明天就要回去读书。 伴随着16年暑假的末尾,大二秋季开学的前奏,让我好好感慨一下。

感谢我的神,我唯一的真主:耶稣基督的犒赏让我回家,回上海过了我的暑假。在这个假期里我所遇到的所有人,所经历的所有事都会给我带来启发,让我进化以及升级!!感谢神把我引领到沐恩堂去做圣日礼拜✝️沐恩堂真的是一个很棒很棒的大家庭❤️感谢我在礼拜中认识的所有教友,有你们,我很安心。我心永远顺服神✟

感谢家人的关爱让我每天都获得健康的生理以及心理。

感谢我的朋友们,在此要突出点名:

*江宁四班以及二班的各位老师和同学,谢谢你们向我证明了青春不老友谊不散;

*黄可欣,谢谢你和你的家人对我的赏识去你家做客还陪我一起吃饭,绘制手包,噶三湖,逛了三年的书展;

*周紫旋,谢谢你在回来的期间带我跟你飞,么么哒;

*陈方园:你很污你知道嘛🙂谢谢你(巧妙)的请客🙂你个傻逼上次不是说了我比你女票要重要么,那好🙂以后你接着请我吧🙂毕竟像我这么可爱善良聪明人好的发小不常见呐🙃

*顾远哲:虽然91岁高龄的我由于高度近视加散光、青光老化白内障,至今还认不出、记不住你那红红的小脸蛋,不过没关系你懂的,反正我认得出你爸🙂

*KD 舞蹈的老师和同学们:蟹蟹你们费心教已经肢体僵硬、骨质疏松、关节炎的我跳舞,本奶奶表示年轻了好多好多呀~谢谢你们矫正我的形体,还要谢谢你们给予我人生和价值上的启发。在此特别谢谢赵老师把我引向沐恩堂✝️

*宋天盈,宝宝我知道今年暑假你很忙要考各种试,所以没法出来浪!请务必相信,你这个暑假的所有付出都会在将来回赠给你!感谢你和你麻麻一直陪伴我这么多年。认识你是我的小幸运!我无条件支持你所有的决定!不要害怕未来,跟随自己内心去闯荡吧!

感谢每一个我有幸结交或者认识的你❤️

感谢上海,我的家,世界上最棒的城市,为我留下一片栖息之地!I❤SH。

感谢苏州河畔的规划二路给我了一片可以每晚吃饱了撑的以后散步的地方🙂

感谢上海书展年复一年的让我结交到很多良师益友以及好书。读书使人进步,阅读使人明智!

感谢’太热’/Tyler,即使在我对你产生些许脸盲的情况下还不跟我撕逼,顽强不拔地、含辛茹苦地跟我在一起Skype 和逗逼 👍🏻👍🏻🙂🙂

蟹蟹,谢谢,谢谢!!!!

我每天都在进步!我也会一直如此!

感恩!感谢!感激!

Happy 20th 🌚

To whoever following my blog (it’s ok even if there is nobody LOL),

It’s now August 22 in both Shanghai and S. Carolina, and yes this date is special, in fact, extremely special, and I’m dedicating this blog to the person that honors my August 22. I’m not quite sure if this person follows my blog LOL, but here we go ~~~~

8.22 is unique special it is the birthday of the owner of tyzoid’s, my supporter’s, my middle-aged man’s 🌚, and my boyfriend’s. And if you have seeable eyes, you can probably tell that Shanghairen is linked under tyzoid, and I’m giving him the credits !!

Wow, and how amazing is it that he’s turning 20 in 2016, which also can mean that he’s heading toward the age of 30 🌚, and I’m not quite sure about western culture, but 30 is considered the beginning of one’s  middle-age in the East, so hey Tyler’s heading toward his middle age, the start of it at least.

Actually he’s more than my boyfriend. From my video gaming opponent to my late-night-food-run partner to my taco-loving-buddy to pizza-loving buddy to ice-cream craving buddy to my essay reviser to my electronic repairer to my pep-talker to my  supporter to my role model (ok fine I’ll admit I secretly look up to him in many aspects) and to my boyfriend to my fellow follower of Christ to my junk-food-craving soulmate to my wound healer to my music lover to my DJ to my magician to my smartie to my hero, he has perfectly fulfilled each one of these roles. Of course, I am never stingy in letting him know of every bit of gratitude I have for him because I know God has brought me to this Earth to appreciate !!

Maybe I’ve said statements like “How lucky I am to have met you” or “I’m so lucky to have been with you” to him but I think we both know from our hearts that nothing in this world is due to luck. God has put us in the life of each other’s for a purpose…In a way, it is fate that we are together.

I believe in the power of “us,” “we” “our” and “together,” and I think this is where Tyler’s magic came from as well !!  We are very strong, so powerful, such formidable WoooOW.

Today is his 20th, and I wish him the largest pieces of cheesecake and pizza in this world !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

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[Book Review] “The Ferryman” (I know I’m supposed to italicize it, but I don’t know how)

“I exist because you need me”

The Ferryman by Claire McFall is the first book, in a long while, that gave me a rush of blood to the heart. I finished reading this in the shortest period of time, and damn, every single page I had gone through made it worth it.

I read the Chinese translation because English is just too basic.

Lessons that can be learnt from this book include, but are not limited to:

  1. I create my own reality. 
  2. Love resolves all. 
  3. One has to give out love in order to attract love. 

Because of the background of my family and many more “awkward” circumstances “love” was once, deemed by me, a word so cliche and overused before I finished The Ferryman. 

i now know that “love” is neither my sweet words nor my cute face, it is my actions. Love must not be said but done. I now know how to better love myself, my family, my boyfriend (Sorry, Tyler, saying or even typing ‘ily’ is still hard, but I will say it when the timing is right   I’ve promised to show you love via my actions~

Let me re-iterate for the 1000000th time,  I thank YOU for this website, support and kindness! You rock. It’s amazing to find you, acquant you, know you, befriend you and boyfriend you.

You exist (in my world) because I need you, and I exist (in your world) because you need me.

Thanks for being my superhero  ⁄(⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄

Thanks for being there.

I thank you for uplifting not only my mind but my soul.

May God bless us ~ ❤

O(∩_∩)O~~

Disclaimer: Albeit being a sophomore student at the University of Michigan, I still dislike reading English literature, especially the super thick books, so i read the Mandarin translation of this book.